So its Sunday night, I’m watching Jerry Maguire on the TV, one of my favourite
movies, and I’m writing this blog post which started out about how to really
leverage social media… what makes good social networking great.
And I can’t help quoting ‘ the late, great, Dicky Fox’, “the key to this business is
personal relationships”.
Seth Godin talks about being part of ‘the conversation’ meaning if you get good
at it, you’re contributing to a dialogue other people are interested in too. Isn’t
this the whole point to social media? Being involved in two way communication
in order to grow your network by finding other people interested in what you’re
talking about. It’s not about the number of connections, it’s about the quality of
them.
Social media gives us the ability to ‘talk’ directly to more people and more
importantly to listen and connect. Seth Godin says this better than me, watch this
for a minute or so…
I think it’s fairly obvious that the only way to really achieve a useful, growing
network that actually contributes to your business is to offer up value first. If you
can give away useful information, insights, expertise in a way that’s interesting,
easy to understand and easy to implement you will find yourself involved in
relevant conversations that create opportunities for you to exploit for the good
of your business.
Yes, I could tell you where to post your blog to generate more traffic and how
to link to sources that will deliver huge volumes of traffic and I will. But first it’s
worth making sure we’re writing about the right things for the right audience for
the right reasons.
Your competition is too great to hold back on giving out some of your best advice
and expertise. The first time someone reads your thoughts you have to grab hold
of them and make them want to come back for more great insights, resources
and help. And If you give away great value, imagine the value you impart when
you’re contracted!?
So make sure you start with offering up great value. ‘Unless you love everybody,
you can’t sell anybody.’… I’m not quite sure how that helps me sum up this blog
post but Dicky Fox just popped up on the TV again.